December 19, 2009
fuyooo....
punya lah tahan mata ku ini.....tido hanya 3 jam....still x mengantuk lg...mengemas rumah sudh...mengadap lappy pun sudh....hehehe...dh biasa lah ya...rutin harian ku bermula seawal 430pg........sampe rmh pukul 6pg terus buka kedai n jual kuih muih....di susuli dgn bahan2 mentah wat suri2 rmh tangga......alhamdulillah..bisnes makin mantoppp... amin..
:-)
finally i'm satisfied wth my new layout 4 diz blog......lately internet connection owez down..bkn kmk sorang jak yg complent mek rasa all malaysian li....memandai jer aku nih....hope servis berukband mek org x down gik ko....semadi nadai jak nk surf tenet.... potong potong potong...iklan wimax....potong saja la....hahaha
December 18, 2009
NOT SLEEPY...
Huhuhu... my mata still x ngantuk...ngabas cafe n ikan pun udah...collect coin mayuh2 4 cafe...mak dh lena belayar d sebelah ku tok...even kenit pun dh berpindah randah tempat tidor nya...now ku dh start memblogging gik...1/2 thun dh ku biarkan blog ku tok merepuk jak...hehehe...bkn apa..ku br jak nk berjinak2 lam memblogging..
actually time tok ku tgh enjoy ga cita kat tv3..lawak ada jak cita ya...CHARLIE & THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY....ng besar la budget cita tok...coz nya pun scene dlm ya kacak2 jak....yg best nya sungai yg mengalir adalah cairan coklat karemal yg lazat n berkrim....owner kilang mr wonka nang lawak...mcm2 jak trick nya nk mengenakkn miak yg terlampau ego n sombong.
5 orng kanak2 yg menjumpai golden invitation card mr wonka terpilih untuk melawat kilang coklat mr wonka....5 org ya terdiri dr latar belakang yg berbeza..4 org nya leh la d katakan loaded..n yg sorang gik off corse la dr family yg poooor..charlie pegi melawat kilang bersama datuk nya yg dh tua n merupakan salah seorng pekeja d kilang coklat ya....
actually time tok ku tgh enjoy ga cita kat tv3..lawak ada jak cita ya...CHARLIE & THE CHOCOLATE FACTORY....ng besar la budget cita tok...coz nya pun scene dlm ya kacak2 jak....yg best nya sungai yg mengalir adalah cairan coklat karemal yg lazat n berkrim....owner kilang mr wonka nang lawak...mcm2 jak trick nya nk mengenakkn miak yg terlampau ego n sombong.
5 orng kanak2 yg menjumpai golden invitation card mr wonka terpilih untuk melawat kilang coklat mr wonka....5 org ya terdiri dr latar belakang yg berbeza..4 org nya leh la d katakan loaded..n yg sorang gik off corse la dr family yg poooor..charlie pegi melawat kilang bersama datuk nya yg dh tua n merupakan salah seorng pekeja d kilang coklat ya....
part yg paling lawak td...miak laki gemok yg tenggelam lam sungai cairan coklat karemal...dwarft belagu...n otomatic nemiak ya d sedut dgn vakum....
2nd ~~nya mengenakn miak puan yg makan schewing gum jak...so nya kunyah la 1 thing yg ala2 schewing gum kata mr wonka tek....nya bertukar menjadi biru n lastly nya jd buah beri n pelu d perah jus nya....
3rd ~~ kanak2 puan yg sukakn binatang......nya terkena dlm bilik khas untuk tupai2 mengupas kulit kacang...so nya berkeras juak nk ngambik salah sekor tupai ya...last2 nya d serang tupai n d buah tupai dlm lubang kacang buruk...hehehehe...so bpak nya pun ekot sama...
4th~~ miak laki yg terakhir....kenak shrink....so ke empat2 org kanak2 yg kenak trick leh mr wonka dh kalah...THe Winner is meeeestilah si charlie yg kiut n x sombong malah nya mementingkan family nya lebih dr segalanya....
reward tuk charlie is...nya yg take over kilang coklat mr wonka.......ending cita tok menerapkan nilai murni betapa penting nya kekeluargaan pada setiap kita...setiap org memerlukan kasih sayang n perhatian antara satu sama lain...yg penting nawaitu kt mesti betul...mun x betul.....HANCUSSSSSSSSSSSSS lh jawab nya......nauzubillah..
YEAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! go CHARLIE go........
DEMAM
Dlm thn 20o9 t0wk..2x jak ku demam....2bln yg lepas aku 1st dmam...demam ya becmpo jerr?pahm2 jak la o0oo..he2..2hr ku merepuk...sian ngan mak..s0rg2 jg kdai.....tk x mengecik kn ht mak..ku drive jak neman nya pg pasa,gk pun lam keta jak..mak jalan2 jak.mun dh nunjuk2 brg2 gan cina.laju jak langkah nya...xpa cina yg n0l0ng ngantar brg lam keta...
2nd time demam is 0n 16.12.09...sehari jak ku dmam..tempreture bdn ku tinggi n bl0od pressure ku tinggi menggila!!juz imagine..tahap bhaya ya...180/110... Dr pun takut....p ku xda rasa papa..mala jak dak nya nanyak penin x...ku x penin...biasa jak...1st time bp ku tinggi...b4 t0wk pg cek up bp n0rmal bh..haha...itu ALLAH punya kuasa.....kun fa yakun..pa nk jd jd la.,yg penting kt sebgai hambanya hrus besyukur..amin...
nk d jadikn cerita..aku d p0liklinik tanah puteh hr marek...4 jam...1st msk blik n0 8..beloya gan dr cina..nya mdh tempreture telampau tinggi...then he suggest me 2 mlh bl0od test..tkt knk dmam denggi...ikt jak la pr0sedur nya..g la blik n0 12...1st time ambk drh.huhu..p x lma o0o...alhmdulillah..my bl0od result is negative frm denggi.amin......
lom abis gik cita mak dh tertunggu2....ingat kn dpat la nyinggah meli ais & g kedai ikan masin...aleh2 x dpt..ney nk molah...terpaksa ekot prosedur supaya cepat sembuh...
alhamdulillah.....demam ku dh ok..n dh sihat...n back wth my normal rutin...is menguruskan bisnes ku.......
SALAM MAAL HIJRAH 1431 HIJRIAH
pejam celik pejam celik...x berasa..dh betukar ke tahun br dh kt..sekejap jak masa berlalu..m0ga tiap apa yg kt lalui dlm tahun t0wk...meninglkn kenangan yg indh wat dr kt x kira baik or buruk..c0z apa yg blaku ada hikmah n pengajaran yg leh d jdkn panduan n iktibr tk kt d lain masa..insyaallah..pa yg penting jgn mudah melatah... Setiap dr kt x telepas gan dugaan n cabaran yg leh melemahkn dr kt...same goes 2 me.alhmdulillah...sumanya ku lalui gan sukses.....n s0k0ngan dr parent,family n kwn2 juak.... thx 4 th0se wh0 still care b0ut me...L0VE U ALL...mmmuuahx...
June 01, 2009
SLOT AKASIA # THE FABULOUS CATS
Inikah berakhirnya
Hidupku yang ku rasa tidak secantik potret yang terlakar dikaca
Inikah makna cinta
Datangnya berbunga bunga belum dijamah pahitnya jelas terasa
Ku renung kisah kita
Perbalahan antara
Erti bersama
Airmata dan lelah buat kita berbalah
Dendam terujud segala yang indah
Hilang hilang
(Korus)
Dari satu hujung ke satu penghujung berlari
Tapi hanya makin ku jalani
Jalan jalan yang sempit sekali
Imbasan warna warni cerita cerita dalam hidup kita
Hingga paling kelam kan terpapar di slot akasia
Ku renung kisah kita
Perbalahan antara
Erti bersama
Airmata dan lelah buat kita berbalah
Dendam terujud segala yang indah
Hilang hilang
(Ulang korus)
(Brigde)
Jauhku fikirkan tentang kita tanpa kita
Sedalam dalam kita mencari jawapan yang sama
Mungkin berbeza antara jalan yang ditentukan
Namun ku percaya jika mata ditutup disitu ada cinta
Madah Pujangga
Berpasangan insan telah dijadikan
Dalam satu jiwa bakal mewujudkan
Bermusim kegelapan dapat dipinggirkan
Namun kita manusia senang dibutakan
Menyintai bukan untuk disakiti
Sejambak bicara harus ditepati
Carta belaian jiwa dilonjakkan tinggi
Tak menjunam jatuh menghempas ke bumi
Sejati itu yang kau ucapkan
Sebuah melodi dan hanyalah satu ungkapan
Kata kata lontaran sekadar ukiran hiasan
Takkan berbunyi bila bertepuk sebelah tangan
Setinggi mana tak guna nak dikecapi
Tiada dua satu jiwa tiada erti
Tiada lagi rekaan khayalan mimpi ngeri menyelubungi
Hanya meniti hari meneliti hati
(Ulang korus)"
Hidupku yang ku rasa tidak secantik potret yang terlakar dikaca
Inikah makna cinta
Datangnya berbunga bunga belum dijamah pahitnya jelas terasa
Ku renung kisah kita
Perbalahan antara
Erti bersama
Airmata dan lelah buat kita berbalah
Dendam terujud segala yang indah
Hilang hilang
(Korus)
Dari satu hujung ke satu penghujung berlari
Tapi hanya makin ku jalani
Jalan jalan yang sempit sekali
Imbasan warna warni cerita cerita dalam hidup kita
Hingga paling kelam kan terpapar di slot akasia
Ku renung kisah kita
Perbalahan antara
Erti bersama
Airmata dan lelah buat kita berbalah
Dendam terujud segala yang indah
Hilang hilang
(Ulang korus)
(Brigde)
Jauhku fikirkan tentang kita tanpa kita
Sedalam dalam kita mencari jawapan yang sama
Mungkin berbeza antara jalan yang ditentukan
Namun ku percaya jika mata ditutup disitu ada cinta
Madah Pujangga
Berpasangan insan telah dijadikan
Dalam satu jiwa bakal mewujudkan
Bermusim kegelapan dapat dipinggirkan
Namun kita manusia senang dibutakan
Menyintai bukan untuk disakiti
Sejambak bicara harus ditepati
Carta belaian jiwa dilonjakkan tinggi
Tak menjunam jatuh menghempas ke bumi
Sejati itu yang kau ucapkan
Sebuah melodi dan hanyalah satu ungkapan
Kata kata lontaran sekadar ukiran hiasan
Takkan berbunyi bila bertepuk sebelah tangan
Setinggi mana tak guna nak dikecapi
Tiada dua satu jiwa tiada erti
Tiada lagi rekaan khayalan mimpi ngeri menyelubungi
Hanya meniti hari meneliti hati
(Ulang korus)"
1st time i heard diz song is in AF7 by aishah....lirik yg menyentuh ht n leh bt aku menitiskan air mata...yg penting maksud senikata ni mendalam n pernah or mungkin berlaku dlm hidup kita....4 me....yupssss it's really happen.....
February 10, 2009
FEEL D LYRICS
Ooohh, oohhhhhh
When the visions around you
Bring tears to your eyes
And all that surrounds you
Are secrets and lies
I'll be your strength
I'll give you hope
Keeping your faith when it's gone
The one you should call
Standing here all alone
And I will take
You in my arms
And hold you right where you belong
'Till the day my life is through
This I promise you (2x)
I've loved you forever, in lifetimes before
And I promise you never, will you hurt anymore
I give you my word, I give you my heart
This is a battle we've won
And with this vow forever has now begun
Just close your eyes
Each loving day
And know this feeling won't go away [nooo]
'Till the day my life is through
This I promise you (2x)
Oh over and over I fall (over and over I fall)
When I hear you call
Without you in my life baby
I just wouldn't be living at all
And I will take (I will take you in my arms)
You in my arms
And hold you right where you belong (right where you belong)
'Till the day my life is through
This I promise you babe
Just close your eyes, each loving day (each loving day)
And know this feeling won't go away, (nooo)
Every word I say is true
This I promise you
Every word I say is true, this I promise you
Oooh I promise you
When the visions around you
Bring tears to your eyes
And all that surrounds you
Are secrets and lies
I'll be your strength
I'll give you hope
Keeping your faith when it's gone
The one you should call
Standing here all alone
And I will take
You in my arms
And hold you right where you belong
'Till the day my life is through
This I promise you (2x)
I've loved you forever, in lifetimes before
And I promise you never, will you hurt anymore
I give you my word, I give you my heart
This is a battle we've won
And with this vow forever has now begun
Just close your eyes
Each loving day
And know this feeling won't go away [nooo]
'Till the day my life is through
This I promise you (2x)
Oh over and over I fall (over and over I fall)
When I hear you call
Without you in my life baby
I just wouldn't be living at all
And I will take (I will take you in my arms)
You in my arms
And hold you right where you belong (right where you belong)
'Till the day my life is through
This I promise you babe
Just close your eyes, each loving day (each loving day)
And know this feeling won't go away, (nooo)
Every word I say is true
This I promise you
Every word I say is true, this I promise you
Oooh I promise you
February 08, 2009
YESTERDAY.....hari yg sgguh menyentuh hati n perasaan..bla bka astro ria tengok mlm amal gaza ulangn.Pementasan teater keganasan d GAZA bez bangat.ending nya KEMATIAN...allahuakbar!subhanallah... Bumi hjau d limpahi darah..x semena2 ai mata ku mengalir...betapa zalim n dayus nya manusia d GAZA yg bertopengkn Binatang..
February 02, 2009
Pagi yang indah
As usual...rutin harian ku bemula seawal 430pg..merangkap driver my mum...g pasar b0r0ng...dok lam kenari jak la...kadang tetdo..p my mum still cool..x ngerepak coz ada kuli nya ngangkat barang...
time hujan2 mcm towk perkara yg membimbangkn is banjir...9-10 hb towk di jangka banjir gik..
time hujan2 mcm towk perkara yg membimbangkn is banjir...9-10 hb towk di jangka banjir gik..
January 28, 2009
OPERASI YG MEMENATKAN........





SEBELUM :-)
operasi towk kmk jalankan seorang diri jak..hahaa..siankan..walaupun memenatkn terpaksa d
truskn coz untuk keselesaan....sehari suntuk merc rmh......alhamdulillah kmk 2 mak x pelu betimba muang ai banjir....bak kata pepatah....dari ney nya datang...dari sia juak la nya keluar...ekekekekeke..... pa la d lalut kmk towk...yg penting kmk enjoy!!!!!
January 27, 2009
ARTIKEL YANG MENARIK PERHATIANKU.....
Left without a sen By Rintos Mail
Most divorced women find it very difficult to get maintenance from their ex-husbands even after a court order
THE institution of marriage existed even in the days of ancient Mesopotamia albeit in a different form. During those times, divorces were documented simply because they happened. Some causes of divorce took cognisance of adultery even as polygamy was considered a standard practice back then.
Early forms of marriage and causes of divorce that existed in the Cradle of Civilisation have continued till today. Causes of divorce, for instance, are still the same although recent additions to its grounds have made marriage a rather easy exercise that can be cast, shaped and allowed to die at will, especially by abusive and deceitful spouses.
In Malaysia, there is only one ground for divorce — when the marriage has irretrievably broken down. You have to prove any one of the following:
Adultery has been committed by your spouse;
You and your spouse have been separated for two years or more;
You have been deserted by your spouse for two years or more;
Your spouse has behaved in such a manner that you find it impossible to live with him or her.
One may petition for a divorce by mutual consent — both parties agreeing to the divorce by way of a joint petition or if there is no mutual consent, by way of a contested petition.
Any person wishing to file for divorce needs to be legally married. If you were married according to traditional or customary rites before March 1, 1982, you have a valid marriage and it is considered registered.
However, marriages must be registered after March 1, 1982, otherwise it is not valid in accordance with the Legal Reform (Marriages & Divorce) Act 1976. Under the Act, the conditions for divorce are that both parties must be married for at least two years and have been living in Malaysia. A divorce may be granted only by a court’s competent jurisdiction.
A divorce is always the least to be expected from a marriage, yet the number has risen to ‘worrying levels’.
According to statistics from the Women, Family and Community Development Ministry, the number of divorces reported annually is on the rise.
In 2006, for instance, 27,266 cases nationwide were recorded compared with 20,502 in 2005. In the case of Sarawak, 1,484 divorces were reported in 2006 compared with 1,130 in 2005.
The statistics also show about 136,550 divorces between 2000 and 2006 throughout the country and of these, some 6,719 were reported in Sarawak.
In the event of a divorce, does the wife, as the aggrieved party, have the right to demand payment of maintenance from the husband even if they no longer live together or are in the process of divorcing?
That’s what Lizy wants to know. She has been married to Eto for six years. (Both their names are changed to protect their confidentiality).
About three years ago, things between them began to change.
Eto, who worked in town, had not been going home and giving money to Lizy and their three young children. He also never called home.
Perplexed by his behaviour, Lizy often asked Eto if anything was wrong. His usual answer was that he was busy and financially tight.
Tired of his flimsy excuses, Lizy decided to get the truth out of Eto. Finally, he confessed he had been carrying on an extra marital affair. Realising it was pointless asking him to stay when his heart was somewhere else, she filed for divorce.
However, because she had resigned from her job on her husband’s request two years ago, she was jobless and did not have any income. How would she be able to cope?
thesundaypost did some research on the matter and found that for civil marriages, the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 provides for maintenance of the spouse.
The wife can get financial support for herself and the children from the husband through maintenance if their marriage was legally registered or if they were married according to religious or customary rites before March 1982.
But maintenance ends once the woman remarries or if her ex-husband dies. Maintenance for the children (which is separate from maintenance for the wife) will, however, continue — even after the woman remarries — until they are 18 years old, or at another age so decided by the court.
The court can order a maintenance during divorce or custody proceedings when a decision or hearing is still pending or when the court is granting or has granted judicial separation or decree in divorce.
In making its decision, the court will refer to the wife’s needs. She has to list down her expenses and monthly budget for herself and her children.
The court, in deciding the amount, may look at the degree of responsibility each party bears for causing the breakdown of the marriage. If the wife played a major role in breaking down the marriage, chances are the maintenance order will be small.
Lizy claimed she had submitted her application for divorce and maintenance through the Legal Aid Bureau, and the court order had been issued to the husband to pay for her as well as their children’s maintenance effective sometime early last year. Till this day, she has never received a single payment.
After enquiring from a few informed quarters, thesundaypost was made to understand that most divorced wives faced ‘great difficulties’ getting maintenance (let alone on a monthly basis) from their ex-husbands even after a court order.
Attempts to obtain the number of such reported cases proved fruitless. But according to the
Single Mothers’ Association of Sarawak (Pitsa), there are long overdue cases of men failing to pay maintenance not only among Muslim but also non-Muslim divorcees.
“As long as the man, regardless of race and religion, has that irresponsible attitude, I believe he won’t be bothered about his obligation even after a court order,” Pitsa chairperson Salmah Ibrahim said.
She added that the association had no records of its members receiving maintenance from their ex-husbands, believing that most of them are ‘fully on their own’.
“We have more than 600 members statewide. As far as I know, our members are mostly independent and motivated and involved in various types of small and medium scale business.”
The maintenance is believed payable from the date of neglect or refusal or from such date as is stated in the court order.
Under the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976, if the husband fails to make payment, he can be imprisoned up to one month for each of the monthly maintenance he defaults. If it’s one month, he can be jailed one month; if it’s one year, he can spend that time behind bars.
The laws are already there to protect both civil marriage and Muslim divorcees, yet many husbands can still get away with their irresponsible conduct. What can be done to the defaulters?
Pitsa calls for strict enforcement of the court order and pressuring the culprits to face the reality that they are legally obliged to pay their ex-wives and children maintenance on a monthly basis.
“Over the past years, we could say enforcement was lacking. We hardly heard of any husband being sent to prison for not complying with the court order.
“Despite defaulting on maintenance (alimony) for years, husbands are still free when they should be put behind the bars according to the country’s laws,” Salmah said.
She pointed out that Pitsa welcomed any move by the authority to sort out this pertinent issue.
According to lawyer Detta Samen, failure to comply with a court order is itself contempt of court which can result in the offender being sent to jail.
He said divorced wives should apply to the court for enforcement.
“Unfortunately, many are not aware of their legal rights or maybe they don’t have the means to engage a lawyer. So far in my experience, after I submitted an application to the court for enforcement, the wives made no more noise. But whether they are still receiving maintenance or not, I don’t know.”
He said by right, male divorcees should continue paying maintenance because the kids were still their children.
Most divorced women find it very difficult to get maintenance from their ex-husbands even after a court order
THE institution of marriage existed even in the days of ancient Mesopotamia albeit in a different form. During those times, divorces were documented simply because they happened. Some causes of divorce took cognisance of adultery even as polygamy was considered a standard practice back then.
Early forms of marriage and causes of divorce that existed in the Cradle of Civilisation have continued till today. Causes of divorce, for instance, are still the same although recent additions to its grounds have made marriage a rather easy exercise that can be cast, shaped and allowed to die at will, especially by abusive and deceitful spouses.
In Malaysia, there is only one ground for divorce — when the marriage has irretrievably broken down. You have to prove any one of the following:
Adultery has been committed by your spouse;
You and your spouse have been separated for two years or more;
You have been deserted by your spouse for two years or more;
Your spouse has behaved in such a manner that you find it impossible to live with him or her.
One may petition for a divorce by mutual consent — both parties agreeing to the divorce by way of a joint petition or if there is no mutual consent, by way of a contested petition.
Any person wishing to file for divorce needs to be legally married. If you were married according to traditional or customary rites before March 1, 1982, you have a valid marriage and it is considered registered.
However, marriages must be registered after March 1, 1982, otherwise it is not valid in accordance with the Legal Reform (Marriages & Divorce) Act 1976. Under the Act, the conditions for divorce are that both parties must be married for at least two years and have been living in Malaysia. A divorce may be granted only by a court’s competent jurisdiction.
A divorce is always the least to be expected from a marriage, yet the number has risen to ‘worrying levels’.
According to statistics from the Women, Family and Community Development Ministry, the number of divorces reported annually is on the rise.
In 2006, for instance, 27,266 cases nationwide were recorded compared with 20,502 in 2005. In the case of Sarawak, 1,484 divorces were reported in 2006 compared with 1,130 in 2005.
The statistics also show about 136,550 divorces between 2000 and 2006 throughout the country and of these, some 6,719 were reported in Sarawak.
In the event of a divorce, does the wife, as the aggrieved party, have the right to demand payment of maintenance from the husband even if they no longer live together or are in the process of divorcing?
That’s what Lizy wants to know. She has been married to Eto for six years. (Both their names are changed to protect their confidentiality).
About three years ago, things between them began to change.
Eto, who worked in town, had not been going home and giving money to Lizy and their three young children. He also never called home.
Perplexed by his behaviour, Lizy often asked Eto if anything was wrong. His usual answer was that he was busy and financially tight.
Tired of his flimsy excuses, Lizy decided to get the truth out of Eto. Finally, he confessed he had been carrying on an extra marital affair. Realising it was pointless asking him to stay when his heart was somewhere else, she filed for divorce.
However, because she had resigned from her job on her husband’s request two years ago, she was jobless and did not have any income. How would she be able to cope?
thesundaypost did some research on the matter and found that for civil marriages, the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 provides for maintenance of the spouse.
The wife can get financial support for herself and the children from the husband through maintenance if their marriage was legally registered or if they were married according to religious or customary rites before March 1982.
But maintenance ends once the woman remarries or if her ex-husband dies. Maintenance for the children (which is separate from maintenance for the wife) will, however, continue — even after the woman remarries — until they are 18 years old, or at another age so decided by the court.
The court can order a maintenance during divorce or custody proceedings when a decision or hearing is still pending or when the court is granting or has granted judicial separation or decree in divorce.
In making its decision, the court will refer to the wife’s needs. She has to list down her expenses and monthly budget for herself and her children.
The court, in deciding the amount, may look at the degree of responsibility each party bears for causing the breakdown of the marriage. If the wife played a major role in breaking down the marriage, chances are the maintenance order will be small.
Lizy claimed she had submitted her application for divorce and maintenance through the Legal Aid Bureau, and the court order had been issued to the husband to pay for her as well as their children’s maintenance effective sometime early last year. Till this day, she has never received a single payment.
After enquiring from a few informed quarters, thesundaypost was made to understand that most divorced wives faced ‘great difficulties’ getting maintenance (let alone on a monthly basis) from their ex-husbands even after a court order.
Attempts to obtain the number of such reported cases proved fruitless. But according to the
Single Mothers’ Association of Sarawak (Pitsa), there are long overdue cases of men failing to pay maintenance not only among Muslim but also non-Muslim divorcees.
“As long as the man, regardless of race and religion, has that irresponsible attitude, I believe he won’t be bothered about his obligation even after a court order,” Pitsa chairperson Salmah Ibrahim said.
She added that the association had no records of its members receiving maintenance from their ex-husbands, believing that most of them are ‘fully on their own’.
“We have more than 600 members statewide. As far as I know, our members are mostly independent and motivated and involved in various types of small and medium scale business.”
The maintenance is believed payable from the date of neglect or refusal or from such date as is stated in the court order.
Under the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976, if the husband fails to make payment, he can be imprisoned up to one month for each of the monthly maintenance he defaults. If it’s one month, he can be jailed one month; if it’s one year, he can spend that time behind bars.
The laws are already there to protect both civil marriage and Muslim divorcees, yet many husbands can still get away with their irresponsible conduct. What can be done to the defaulters?
Pitsa calls for strict enforcement of the court order and pressuring the culprits to face the reality that they are legally obliged to pay their ex-wives and children maintenance on a monthly basis.
“Over the past years, we could say enforcement was lacking. We hardly heard of any husband being sent to prison for not complying with the court order.
“Despite defaulting on maintenance (alimony) for years, husbands are still free when they should be put behind the bars according to the country’s laws,” Salmah said.
She pointed out that Pitsa welcomed any move by the authority to sort out this pertinent issue.
According to lawyer Detta Samen, failure to comply with a court order is itself contempt of court which can result in the offender being sent to jail.
He said divorced wives should apply to the court for enforcement.
“Unfortunately, many are not aware of their legal rights or maybe they don’t have the means to engage a lawyer. So far in my experience, after I submitted an application to the court for enforcement, the wives made no more noise. But whether they are still receiving maintenance or not, I don’t know.”
He said by right, male divorcees should continue paying maintenance because the kids were still their children.
January 24, 2009
January 13, 2009
WHAT HURTS THE MOST - BY RASCAL FLATS
I can take the rain on the roof of this empty house That don't bother meI can take a few tears now and then and just let them out I'm not afraid to cry every once in a whileEven though going on with you gone still upsets me There are days every now and again I pretend I'm okBut that's not what gets me
What hurts the most Was being so close And having so much to say And watching you walk awayAnd never knowing What could have been And not seeing that loving you Is what I was tryin' to do
It's hard to deal with the pain of losing you everywhere I go But I'm doin' It It's hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I'm alone Still Harder Getting up, getting dressed, livin' with this regret But I know if I could do it over I would trade give away all the words that I saved in my heart That I left unspoken
What hurts the most Is being so close And having so much to say And watching you walk away And never knowing What could have been And not seeing that loving you Is what I was trying to do
What hurts the most Is being so close And having so much to say And watching you walk away And never knowing What could have been And not seeing that loving youIs what I was trying to do
Not seeing that loving youThat's what I was trying to doOoohhh....
January 12, 2009
11.01.2009
tepat jam 530 ptg...kwsn rumh kmk n kedai d naiki air....so bermula la banjir besar d kmpg kmk...x sangka banjir sebesar ya...dalam nya mencapai paras lutut kmk...nasib bait la abg kmk ada d rmh..nya la nolong nyimpan apa yg patut...n bakal d hanyut kn ai...actually kmk 2 mak dh stanby awl2....so x byk la brg2 yg pelu d alih.....
my 1st time experience with flood....biasa nya banjir kecik jak...yg seronok nya nemiak la...pat mandi n berendam dlm ai ya...riuh rendah la bunyi nya...mcm2 gelagat pat di liat...ada nya konok2 ngambik liputan video mcm karam singh walia iola..hehehehe...
alhamdulillah suma nya selamat...keta kmk paksa paking jauh...x tentu rasa bila parking jauh2...kol 730mlm kmk dh stnby g kat keta..paksa la jalan demi keselamatan...tkt org nk ngalih keta... dh la keta paking rapat2... mesti ada keta org yg calar2..almaklumla sempit...nasib kenari kmk xda papa..syukur...pukul 1030mlm bok keta kmk pat lepas..ya pun abg yg ambik.....memenatkan la....jaln2 suma dh blok leh keta..coz suma nk nyelamat kn keta dari tenggelam leh air....
mak kmk biasa la kamboh angin nya x pande ilang2...tension kmk 2 abg d kerja nya....dh jak banjir blackout jak lagi...nasib bait stok lilin kat kedai ada...abiz dh lilin d borong org...kol 930mlm bok ada letrik....dh ada letrik pat la ga csi...ya pun tv yg nangga kmk.. :-)
my 1st time experience with flood....biasa nya banjir kecik jak...yg seronok nya nemiak la...pat mandi n berendam dlm ai ya...riuh rendah la bunyi nya...mcm2 gelagat pat di liat...ada nya konok2 ngambik liputan video mcm karam singh walia iola..hehehehe...
alhamdulillah suma nya selamat...keta kmk paksa paking jauh...x tentu rasa bila parking jauh2...kol 730mlm kmk dh stnby g kat keta..paksa la jalan demi keselamatan...tkt org nk ngalih keta... dh la keta paking rapat2... mesti ada keta org yg calar2..almaklumla sempit...nasib kenari kmk xda papa..syukur...pukul 1030mlm bok keta kmk pat lepas..ya pun abg yg ambik.....memenatkan la....jaln2 suma dh blok leh keta..coz suma nk nyelamat kn keta dari tenggelam leh air....
mak kmk biasa la kamboh angin nya x pande ilang2...tension kmk 2 abg d kerja nya....dh jak banjir blackout jak lagi...nasib bait stok lilin kat kedai ada...abiz dh lilin d borong org...kol 930mlm bok ada letrik....dh ada letrik pat la ga csi...ya pun tv yg nangga kmk.. :-)
January 03, 2009
muka semporok hujung taun 2006.....

12.12.06 kmk balit kuch terus...4 taun d bintulu....terlalu bnyk kenangan pahit n manis yg di lalui...juz 4 get bout it...n buka lembaran br dlm hidup..alhamdulillah..semuanya dpt d tempuhi ngan lancar....kadng2 ada juak dugaan yg dtg....sumanya pat kmk settle kan dgn sempurna...
yg penting kmk x jauh dr parent n family d kuching...sepanjg 4 taun d bintulu dpt di kira time kmk balit kuching....ya pun x lm....sedih juak rasa berjauhan dr parent n family...
i'm really hapi back with my family again...4 my family love u all from d bottom of my heart...mmuuaaahhxxx..
pic towk time ujung taun 2006....n countdown waiting 4 year 2007.......
January 02, 2009
MISS MY TIGER a.k.a GARFIELD
miss my garfield a lot...terpaksa kmk anta nya balit coz nya nk bebini...hehehe...rindu gan manja n gelagat nya ehz....dh jak nya besar n membuatkn mak kmk takut nk dekat gan nya..3 hari 2 mlm jak kmk jg nya...gik pun kmk xda pusa betina k nya bebini...takut nk melepas nya sebarang.....mun ilang putih mata kmk...nasib la kazen kmk byk pursian....dpt la nya bebini...
1st day kmk jg nya x bnyk kerenah...pas mandi nya paksa masok kandang n xda keja lain la d polh nya...kiut mukanya time nya tdo...mun nya bgn mukanya muram jak...coz bulunnya lebat n ngerembang.....
2nd day kmk pat ambik pic2 nya relax dlm rumh...mun nya berbunyi nk kuat .......meoooooowwwwwwwww
petang ya juak nya tiba2 agresif n marah2....tangan kmk n kaki di gigit nya...alah bisa tegal biasa...gik pun kenit salu ngeramus n gigit juak mun nya marah...so ada la scar....
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